Obijac bez obijaca: kraje in kulture, kjer ni sprejetno darovati drug drugemu tem gesom

Za prebivalca Evrope ali Amerike se počutje obijanju zdi samozrejmim. Obijamo se obisku, v znaku pozdravljanja, ljubezni, v znaku rozprave. Nam je težko predstavit, da bi ta ges v kakšnem kraju bil ni le ne sprejet, ampak povzročal zmedo, znevarbo ali celo ljubosum. In pravzaprav, raziskava, ki je obsegala 168 kultur sveta, je pokazala, da se romantični obijaci praktikujejo le v 46% od njih. V ostalih delih sveta ljudje brez tega — bodisi zaradi kulturnih tradicij, bodisi zaradi strogo religioznih norm, bodisi pa le zato, ker ne znanjo, da je to takšno. Obijac ni univerzalni jezik ljubezni. To je kulturni konstruk, in v mnogih delih sveta ga ni ali pa ga strmo tabujo.

Države strogega islama: obijac pod zapoved zakona

Najbolj stroge omejitve delujejo v državah Blizkega vzhoda in Južne Azije, kjer islama norme regulirajo ne le osebno, ampak tudi javno življenje. V Združenih arabskih emiratih, Saudijski arabski aravski, Iranu, Kataru in Afganistanu so javni obijaci med moškim in žensko ne le prekršitev etike, ampak tudi kazensko dejanje. Za javni obijac v javnem mestu v Združenih arabskih emiratih lahko dobiš zaporno obrest do deset dni. V Iranu in Združenih arabskih emiratih se javni obijac zaprisegejo z večmesecnim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim zapornim 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